Thing you should consider when picking your first dance song
Wedding Inspiration — 9th August 2023
The first dance is a cherished moment that symbolises the beginning of your journey as a married couple.
It’s a magical moment during your wedding day when all eyes are on you and your new spouse. Picking the perfect song to dance to can enhance the romance and create a lasting memory for you, your spouse, and your most beloved friends and family.
But with this being such an important moment, picking your first dance song is an important (and often daunting) task.
In this post, we’ll guide you through the process of picking your first dance song, sharing with you some of the advice we’ve picked up over the years of helping couples to pick their wedding music.
Keep reading to find out how to pick the perfect song to ensure a truly special and meaningful moment on your wedding day.
Picking your first dance song: What should you consider?
Whether you already have a special, meaningful song in mind, or you have no idea where to start, we hope the following advice will help to guide you to that perfect piece.
Here’s what you should consider when weighing up songs for your first dance…
Reflect on Your Relationship
Your first dance song should reflect your unique love story and evoke emotions that resonate with both of you.
Take a moment to reminisce about your journey as a couple and the songs that hold sentimental value.
Consider the songs that remind you of important milestones, shared experiences, or even the first song you ever danced to together.
By choosing a song that holds personal significance, you’ll create an authentic and meaningful first dance moment.
Musical Preference and Style
Consider your musical preferences as a couple.
Are you drawn to romantic ballads, upbeat tunes, or a specific genre?
It’s essential to select a song that represents your collective style and showcases both of your personalities. Whether you prefer classic, contemporary, or even unconventional music, there are no hard and fast rules.
Trust your instincts and choose a song that truly resonates with you as a couple.
Lyrics and Meaning
Pay attention to the lyrics of the songs you’re considering. Ensure that the words align with your love story and convey the emotions you want to share on your wedding day.
Some couples prefer romantic and heartfelt lyrics, while others may opt for a song that highlights their fun-loving nature or sense of adventure.
Take the time to analyse the lyrics and choose a song that speaks to your hearts.
Tempo and Dance Style
Consider the tempo and dance style that suits you best. Remember this is a first dance after all. You need to be able to channel the music and move to it in front of a crowd.
Do you envision a slow, romantic waltz or a lively, energetic dance?
If you have your heart set on a specific dance style, such as foxtrot, tango, or swing, look for songs that match the rhythm and allow you to showcase your moves.
Remember, your first dance should reflect your comfort level and allow you to enjoy the moment together. If you’re the most outgoing of people, don’t choose a song that requires a full-blown choreographed number. Opt for something simple and meaningful, that you can hold your partner close and enjoy.
Song Length and Dance Preparation
Take into account the length of the song and how it aligns with your dance preparation.
If you plan on taking dance lessons, a shorter song might be more manageable. On the other hand, if you’re comfortable with a longer song, it can provide a beautiful opportunity to savour the moment and create a memorable dance routine (we all love a viral wedding moment!)
Consider discussing your dance vision with an instructor and seek their guidance when choosing the song.
Collaborate and Compromise
Selecting a first dance song is a collaborative effort. Both partners should have an opportunity to contribute their ideas and preferences.
It’s essential to communicate openly, listen to each other’s suggestions, and find a song that resonates with both of you.
If you have different tastes, consider finding a middle ground or even creating a mashup of two songs that represent your individual styles. Talk to your wedding musicians and get their suggestions on how to blend your styles in a fun and unique way.
The process of compromise can strengthen your bond and make the first dance even more meaningful.
Test It Out
Before finalising your first dance song, take the time to listen to it together and envision yourselves dancing to it.
Consider practising a few steps or having a dance session to get a feel for the song’s rhythm and compatibility with your dance style.
This allows you to assess whether the song truly captures the essence of your connection and if it feels natural to dance to.
Consult with Professionals
If you’re having difficulty selecting the perfect first dance song, consult with your wedding musicians and dance instructor and get their advice.
Our exceptional team of musicians and booking coordinators have helped countless brides and grooms to choose their wedding songs over the years. In fact, they might have a suggestion that turns out to be the perfect song that you hadn’t even thought of yet.
We have experience working with couples and can provide valuable insights and recommendations based on your preferences and wedding style.
Our expertise can help you narrow down your options and find a song that complements your vision.
Our artists are also always happy to take requests and learn your first dance song (this is included in the price of your booking). All we ask is that you give us ample notice to give our artists enough time to learn and perfect their performance so that they can make your first dance truly special.
Summary
Choosing the perfect first dance song is a significant decision that sets the tone for a memorable moment on your wedding day.
By reflecting on your relationship, considering musical preferences, lyrics, tempo, and dance style, collaborating with your partner, and even consulting with professionals, you can find a song that encapsulates your love story.
Remember, it’s not about choosing the most popular or trendy song, but rather selecting one that holds deep meaning for both of you.
So, embrace the journey of selecting your first dance song and prepare for a heartfelt, unforgettable moment that celebrates your love.